John & Carla Ercole, Asbury Park – We don’t think so. Whatever he or she does at home is their business. As long as the job gets done and there’s no interference, it’s ok with us. Americans are too focused on behavior in private lives; too uptight. How do we know Anthony Weiner’s wife didn’t join in on the fun? Maybe she knew, approved and participated. As long as the public isn’t cheated who cares?